Well...

I let the secret free.
I didn't have the guts to say it, so i gave Ashley permission and i am in her debt for that. The response was a little bit of a suprise. But im not sure i want to know the answer to the second question i have. Oh well, she knows, im happy that its out, overall, i am really happy with how everything is going. Although it could all get better.

Peace

Caveman&trade